giving up or adding on?

Hi there!  I’m still around!  Sorry if you’ve been waiting for Disney tips… for some reason I’m just having a hard time compiling them all in my mind enough to share!  But don’t worry – I promise I’ll get them on here soon.

So…. I wanted to ask you…  are you giving up or adding on this Lenten season?

Being brought up as a Free Methodist, I have never really been one to give anything up for Lent.  It was just never a part of our traditions.  Lately, however, I can understand and see the value of using this time of year to weed out those things that are not God-glorifying in our lives, and possibly add some things that ARE.

I haven’t officially given anything up for Lent this year, but I have been trying to cut back on time on facebook and in particular, to not waste time playing any facebook games (I really loved pathwords!).  I have been successful for over a month now – and it’s a good thing. 

I’ve also added reading this “Girlfriends in God”  that I found through Bible Gateway.  You can see their daily devotional here, and from the home page you can sign up to have them e-mailed to you.  I highly recommend it!  The devotionals are relevant and sooo good at directing your thoughts back to God’s truth! 

What a great way to prepare for celebrating Jesus’ sacrifice on Easter next month!

The following I cut and pasted from one of my daily devotional e-mails so you could see an example.  This was one of my favorites, from March 17th.  Enjoy it, and then go get them sent to you so you can “add on” something positive!

March 17, 2011
The Tool of Discouragement
Mary Southerland

Today’s Truth
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart” (Proverbs 3:5, NIV).

Friend to Friend
It was advertised that the devil was putting his tools up for sale. When the day of the sale came, each tool was priced and laid out for public inspection. And what a collection it was. Hatred, envy, jealousy, deceit, pride, and lying … the inventory was treacherous. Off to one side was a harmless-looking tool priced higher than all the rest, even though it was obviously more worn than any other tool the devil owned. “What’s the name of this tool?” asked one of the customers. “That,” the devil replied, “is discouragement.” The customer asked, “But why have you priced it so high?” The devil smiled and explained, “Because discouragement is more useful to me than all the others. I can pry open and get inside a man’s heart with that tool when I can’t get near him with any other. It’s badly worn because I use it on almost everyone, since so few people know it belongs to me.”

The valleys in life are lined with disappointment and discouragement. Some people seem to thrive on adversity, emerging from their valley with greater strength and deeper faith. Others stumble and fall, giving in to discouragement and dropping out of the race. The difference in outcome is determined by the way we choose to handle discouragement.

We must respond to each valley with trust and faith. The word “trust” means “to lie helpless, face down” and is the picture of a servant waiting for his master’s command or a soldier yielding himself to a conquering general. “Heart” refers to “the center of one’s being.” In other words, to trust God completely means that from the very center of our being, from the very core of our existence, we trust Him, totally abandoning ourselves in childlike faith to Him and His plan. We come to God, holding nothing in our hands, with one word in our heart – “whatever!” Whatever You want me to do, Lord, I will do. Whatever You want me to say, Lord, I will say. Whatever You want me to think, Lord, I will think. Whatever path You have for me, Lord, I will walk.”

If you are like me, you sometimes think you don’t have enough faith. The amount of faith is not
nearly as important as the right kind of faith – faith in God alone. Faith does not rest on what we
have done, but on what Christ has already done on the cross and in our lives. Faith builds on
the victories of yesterday to help us face the valleys of today and the storms of tomorrow. Faith
does not bypass pain. It does, however, empower us to deal with pain. Faith steps up to the bat
and invites the opponent to throw his best pitch. Sometimes faith strengthens us, and other
times, surprises us. Great faith is forged in the deepest valleys, beginning where our strength
and power end.

I love the story of a missionary family, home on furlough and visiting friends. When it was time
for dinner, the mother of the missionary children called her kids in. When her son burst through
the door, she took one look at his hands and said, “Son, go wash those hands. They are dirty
and covered in germs.” With a scowl on his face, the little boy headed to the sink muttering,
“Germs and Jesus! Germs and Jesus! That’s all I hear about and I’ve never seen either one!”
While we tend to say that seeing is believing, faith says that believing is seeing. Doubt creates
mountains; faith moves them. Faith produces trust that shatters fear and leaves no room for

Let’s Pray
Father, I am so discouraged. Life is just not turning out like I thought it would. I have had so many disappointments and it seems like I face one valley after another. I need You and the hope that only You can give. Help me to trust You will all of my heart – not just part of it. Teach me how to walk by faith and not by sight. Today, I come to You with a “yes” in my heart for whatever You have planned for my life.
In Jesus’ name,

Now It’s Your Turn
Read Hebrews 13:6 “We can say with confidence, ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?'”

  • What valley are you facing today?
  • What has been your response to that valley so far?
  • Are you willing to recognize God as the only source of true peace?
  • Are you ready to surrender your valley to God and trust Him to deliver you?

 More from the Girlfriends
I know that many of you are discouraged and in pain. My first reaction is that of a mother – to do whatever I can to make that pain go away. But then I remember how God has taken the most painful parts of my life and used them for good. He really has. And I can tell you that no matter where you are, no matter how deep the pit may be, your God sees you and will deliver you. Don’t quit! Don’t give up! God is with you … and so are we!

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